Different Types Of Love

There are different types of love,
some love are eternal, some love are temporary
Some types of love may easily fade away while some types of love remain strong
Love, a long standing character which could be lost along the journey of life
Every kind of love exists with a reason, while some occurs naturally
There are natural love while some are developed
One’s love towards or for someone is not the same.

There is natural love
which is not related to things and material
Like the love of a child towards his parents
Even though the parents are poor, handicapped, without status, without good looks
The child would still love and care for his parents
This kind of love would not easily fade away unless the parents are cruel

There is a love which is based on woman’s beauty and her sexy body
This love is related with sexual desires
When the sexual attraction disappears
e.g. due to old age or the loss of beauty due to an illness or an accident which caused physical disabilities
The love disappears, unless the woman has an honorable character
The love for her persists due to her good character

There is a love for the knowledge or intelligence in a person
One falls in love for his knowledge, then there is an automatic love with the person
This love may fade away as well
When his character degrades, the love will disappear.

A number of love exist for someone with fame and glamor
One falls in love with a well known person
This kind of love fades easily as well
If the person is less known due to an illness or loss of self respect or due to a demotion,
the love for him fades away.
Love for wealth in a person is a common occurrence
His wealth is the attraction
This type of love fades easily
When the wealth diminishes or he is stricken with poverty and impoverishment,
fades away the love

Some would fall in love in someone for his position
and the high status accompanying his appointment
The attraction is towards the status
This kind of love fades away easily as well
The love blossoms at times of the higher position,
at times of demotion, the love disappears to nowhere

There are also some who are in love in someone for his strength and mightiness
The heart is attached to the person
This kind of love is untrue
When he is crippled or weak due to an illness
The love disappears, the one loved is then left alone

Majority in the world would fall in love
and love those with honorable attributes
One who is generous, loving and caring, being humble,
pleasant, forgiving, understanding, tolerant
Gentleness is his attire, giving priority to others is his culture plus other kind attributes
Towards this person, everyone falls in love with him
Everybody would be crazy for him, including those with bad habits
Including a non believer
Unless someone with feelings of vengeance towards him

In reality, true and eternal love
A pure and virtuous love which is unrelated to material things
Love Allah, God who has in His possession everything there is
The Love which is not affected by any mishaps
Even though God is invisible to the naked eye
But His presence is felt in the heart
This kind of love is achieved only by those with taqwa
It is an extraordinary love
Those who have acquired this love, they are unable to describe it.

ABUYA AL FATA AT TAMIMI
02.09.2001

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