AN INSIGHT ON BEAUTIFUL POLYGAMY IN ISLAM

What is Polygamy?

Polygamy is a way of life in a family as commanded by God. For Allah and Rasul, life as a family is polygamy. While monogamy is the last choice. To have one wife is meant only for the people who are too weak to be fair leaders. Polygamy is actually needed by both men and women.

Woman who loves God absolutely requires polygamy. This is because between the responsibility towards God and responsibility towards her husband, polygamy is the way for her to fulfill it. That is submission towards God, love with God and sacrifice for God will be most practical when our lifestyle is polygamy. Polygamy provides many great deal and wide opportunities for one to demonstrate that one’s life is only for the sake of God. Whoever prays in the real sense of the word will surely never miss this opportunity. This is because a prayer states that life is only for God.

Polygamy trains women to say:

God, the match whom You bestow upon me, this husband of mine, I am blessed to have him so that I can be more thankful to You. So, I will prove it to You, that a husband is a leader and a wife is an obedient follower. This leader who can lead more than one wife, I will share all the pleasures I receive from my husband and this household with another woman who also needs it. For the sake of obeying Your commands O Lord, so that my love for You is verified and also for the sake of getting Your acceptance O Lord. And so that the Prophet’s Sunnah is my Sunnah too. That is polygamy is helping woman to free herself from the nafs ammarah. That is polygamy is the most effective cure to obtain God’s love. The hardships in polygamy is indeed needed to cleanse the heart from the evil and filthy nafs. Whoever wishes to die as someone who brings along a protected heart, will certainly choose polygamy as a way of life. With regards to this protected heart, Allah has revealed in Al Quran, meaning:

” On that day ( Day of Reckoning ) wealth and children will not be of any use unless you bring along a protected heart.” ( As Syu’ara: 88-89 )

What do men need polygamy? Yes, it is for the men to say, ” For the sake of God, I will demonstrate that a man is capable of marrying 4 women, to lead them to God, to totally fulfill the love and care and their welfare, to provide many children and to make them feeling satisfied and contented with all these. With the condition that You care to be with me throughout my entire life, O Allah. O Lord, You are Most Just, please make me into a leader who is fair and just.”

God, whenever there exist a man and women who possess the hearts mentioned earlier, then they will be united in a marriage so that a harmonious and beautiful polygamy will take place as what You meant. Al Quran and Hadith will then be practiced as a way of life. Then, appear a live and moving Al Quran and Hadith, implementing an Islamic way of life. The Pillars of Faith and the Pillars of Islam become alive within the pillars of life of human. And it is the beginning of Islamic resurgence on God’s earth. Amin, O Allah.

ABUYA ASHAARI MUHAMMAD AT TAMIMI

 

Satire’s Corner 2

Islamic Sacred Sex

A. Divorce rate: 70 divorce cases per day: quite worrying

B. Rate of abandon babies: for the last 2 years the numbers are reaching 200,000: definitely worrying

C. Those Jews feel jubilant with their success !

D. Do seek for solutions. So that people do not divorce and to have many lawful children.

E. Fight for sacred sex, that is husband and wives being given a bowl of ingredients which will increase their sexual desires to the extent that – they have it everyday.

F. When the wife is utterly satisfied, completely famished, when the husband needs more of it, well, do take another wife! Then, there will be many lawful children as there can be.

G. The ingredients are available in the spiritual world, in the hands of Prophet Muhammad. Whoever recite the salawat as much as possible, he / she will receive the ingredients, a package from the Final Prophet.

Satire’s Corner 1

Satire’s Corner 1

A true story:  (Dare) to go against natural instinct?

Scenario 1:

Scenario in a TV talk show, there were 3 ladies; a hostess ( without a head cover ), a member of OWC, a feminist lady ( with head cover ).
The hostess politely posed a question to OWC member:
” The polygamy practiced by OWC can be a model for the world, yes.”
The OWC member, smiling while showing Abuya’s book on polygamy, ” Abuya is the one who have succeeded to be a model and for the world to refer to and all these has been documented in his guidance books.”

Scenario 2:
The lady feminist in full spirits said, ” Aren’t the guidelines found inside Al Quran. When we adhere to Quran, there will emerge a family of sakinah, mawaddah and rahmah which WILL NOT BE INTERFERED by a third person.”

Scenario 3:
As the programme ended, the OWC member handed a book titled “How Sweet Honey ( Sister-Wife) Is” to the hostess and it was received with warmth and a thank you. The feminist lady also wished to have the book. She said, ” I also wish to have it, I wish to know its contents. But I need to hide it from my husband, because if I don’t, surely he will wish to practice polygamy.”

Comment:
Indeed, Allah has created instincts within men for them to want and also being capable to have more than one wife. Try to think, which is smarter, we fight against the instinct created by God or we support what God has created.